Every Monday, I sit in circle with a group of men. We drop in with breath and meditation, and the more present I am with the practice, the more attuned I become to the group. On those nights, the air hums with truth, and the circle becomes alive. Here we are, sharing and connecting in a relational container meant to both challenge and hold us.
Presence is the current that allows me to witness, respond, and support the group. It’s also the current that allows me to witness myself — to catch the micro-reactions, the contractions, the urges to fix, to flee, to speak, or to hide.
The Stillpoint Practice was born from that same current. It’s a way of training the space between impulse and action. Movement becomes a mirror for awareness. It reveals the weight of your being when you are truly present. You begin to walk with more gravitas. Not from bravado, but from calm, grounded knowing.
Cycle 1 — Downregulation Breathing (3 min)
Intention: Drop the nervous system into calm alertness.
Technique: Inhale through the nose for 4 seconds, exhale out the mouth for 8 seconds.
Begin by sitting tall, feet rooted, spine long.
(pause 5 seconds)
Inhale through the nose for four...
Exhale gently out the mouth for eight...
(pause 8 seconds)
Notice how your shoulders start to drop, your jaw unclenches.
With each breath, imagine the exhale carrying static and tension down into the ground.
Continue this rhythm — inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth — letting every long exhale pull you deeper into your seat.
Reminder: If your mind wanders, return to the exhale. The exhale is your anchor.
Cycle 2 — Body Scan (3 min)
Intention: Cultivate awareness of stillness and internal sensation.
Technique: Guided scan from crown to toes, with micro-pauses of awareness.
Let your breath return to its natural rhythm.
Sit in stillness.
Notice the small urges to move or adjust — witness them, then let them go.
Bring your attention to the top of your head.
(pause 5 seconds)
Feel the skin, the subtle temperature.
Move your awareness down to your face — eyes, jaw, lips — softening as you notice.
(pause 5 seconds)
Drop into your neck and shoulders — tension accumulates here, so linger a bit.
(pause 8 seconds)
Now through the chest — notice expansion and contraction as you breathe.
Bring awareness to your belly, your hips, your thighs — the centre of your grounding.(pause 10 seconds)
Feel your weight supported by the chair, gravity holding you steady.
Scan down through your knees, calves, and feet. Feel the floor grounding you.
Sit here — still, alert, alive.
Cycle 3 — Intentional Movement (3 min)
Intention: Integrate awareness into dynamic motion.
Technique: Slow, intentional movement to awaken grounded presence.
Slowly stand.
(pause 5 seconds)
Begin to shift your weight side to side.
Feel the transfer of balance — heel to toe, left to right.
(pause 10 seconds)
Add gentle spinal rotation, letting your arms hang loose.
Feel gravity pull your shoulders down away from your ears, and imagine rooting your hands into the floor.
Now slow it down even more.
Get present with micro-shifts.
Presence in motion — that’s what we’re cultivating. Feel the difference between movement that’s habitual and movement that’s conscious.
Return to stillness.
Feel your heartbeat, your breath, your weight.
Notice what’s shifted, even slightly. That’s the space we train for.
Carry that stillpoint with you as you step back into the circle.